December 2, 2008

Go See Milk

This movie staring Sean Penn is the best Movie I have seen all year. A very moving piece with spectacular acting by Sean and Josh Browlin. I remember reading about Harvey Milk years ago and even then it struck me as a tragic yet inspiring story about early Gay rights. I was moved then as I was now by the shear number of people who attended the candle lit vigil after Harvey and the Major of San Francisco were shot in there offices at city hall in 1978. Gus Van Sant was brilliant this time by using original footage from actual events as well as the vigil crowd as far as the eye can see marching to City Hall.

November 2, 2008

October Travels

Again I find myself too busy to update my blog and here it is a month later. October was a very busy month and every weekend was spent out of town. The first week was another St. Louis work trip and I got to see the hilarious movie Religilous with friends and also a fun relaxing Sunday with family. The second weekend was Devon and Jesse’s wonderful outdoor wedding and a spontaneous trip to P-town, in which we even took Pru down with us on the Fast Ferry. It was a crisp cool weekend and most of the businesses were having sales as the natives we winding down from the hectic season. We wore Pru out with the walks on the beach and up and down commercial street as well as ourselves with a bike ride through some of the trails. We even ran into some friends, which makes things so much better and fun. The weekend of the 17th I took off to Washington DC, to meet up with Alec (my son). We had a nice time just hanging out and Donna was so sweet to offer up her place to stay. It was nice to also see Alonzo (from the DZine days) and we all laughed quite a bit. At one portion at dinner, I had to leave the table because I was laughing so hard. We even took a short day trip to Mt. Vernon; George Washington’s home before heading back home via BWI. The last weekend in October was Jay’s birthday and we went to Jacksonville Florida for a family weekend to celebrate an early thanksgiving. The activities included a trivia night at a favorite restaurant, a rainy afternoon of shopping, bowling and a seafood dinner. We also took a day trip to St. Augustine, just south of Jax, and had lunch in this historic city after browsing the nick-knack tourist shops and one museum. I can tell you that I was happy to live in the North East after being in the conservative south for even that short weekend.

Halloween was again a great time in the South End, and we had a nice dinner at Sibling Rivalry after a long day at work. I know that next year, the salon HAS to be involved with this South End Halloween extravaganza. The streets are so crowded with trick-or-treaters and businesses stay open late to partake in this Holiday. I remember saying, as I did the previous year: “This is the only time of year Bostonians are friendly and inviting”.

OK, back to the Grind, and don’t forget to VOTE! Next time I write, I will be saying Barack Obama is our next president.

September 28, 2008

The Six Flags (Out In the Park) and the Deva Curl NYC Pure Hair Design weekend.

Having been rushed around working all week, it was a relief to take a Saturday off, but still I didn’t have the time to prepare for New York like I wanted to. We took off early Saturday for Six Flags alone, as we still don’t have any good friends.. SIGH.. We did however meet up with some of Jay’s co-workers and their partners after we had been at the park a couple of hours. The park was not crowded and it was so cool to be able to ride all the rides and get on them so quickly. The rollercoaster called Mind Eraser is certainly jerky and more of what I would rename the “Concussion Maker.” I enjoyed the Batman a lot as it was cushiony with plenty of head support and swift. Pandemonium or as Jeremy would continually call it the the Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium, something or other, obviously he is confused; was a favorite with its spinning rollercoaster car. I especially loved the two young ghetto fabulous transsexuals who were “vogue-ing” while cursing obscenities going up into the air and being dropped on “Scream” the 220 foot freefall ride, I suppose they fit the description perfectly. I relaxed a bit and had some nasty park cheese fries while chatting with Cody and James as they were sitting out the last ride on the Superman. Jeremy ended up loosing his car key on the ride and after only a brief 20 minutes after the ride was closed, they found the key in a spot that the staff frequent after someone looses things from the ride – the G spot they called it. I can only imagine after a long day standing around and lifting up chest bars and pushing big yellow buttons they all descend under a steep turn or flip under the coaster and sift through the tall grass or shallow rock. Occasionally picking up chewing gum by accident, or perhaps a nice watch, a million coins, a TV or two, or even a car key that may have fallen out of the pockets of the patrons while they put their hands up to spiral through fun at Six Flags.

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Another rush to pack after returning from Out In the Park and an early morning drive to the real city of NY. I arrived around noon waking up the girls on my phone call informing them of my proximity to the financial district hotel in which we were all staying. I could tell they had a rough night and they began discussing the previous night stories of debauchery in the Meat Packing district with a nice dinner and a continuous fight to get into clubs and bars (Apryl had forgotten her ID). I think they managed to get into a few places, but Jenny described it as feeling like she was in the movie “Knocked Up” running to the begining of the line and arguing with the bouncer. See IMDB link-- http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0478311/quotes

We got right to some shopping in SoHo - my favorite spot. We ended up waiting 45 minutes for this very cute stylish restaurant called Delicatessen which turned out to have the most unbelievably horrendous service I have ever experienced from a server whose brain was de-commissioned before she arrived to work. See my Yelp review.. http://www.yelp.com/biz/delicatessen-new-york

No planned reservations for dinner, but we managed to find a pretty good place near China Town called Boroco. It was a cavernous place, more of a romantic getaway, but nonetheless, where else would I have the opportunity to try “creamed cod” – Seriously?!
After dinner the girls went back to crash and I went uptown to…well…be out in NY. I soon got bored and tried one other location, “The Cock” over in the East side, and again got bored and took an early night in.

I awoke in a sweat in the middle of the night and immediately went into a panic attack as I couldn’t feel my left arm. I crouched around in the dark only using my cell phone to light my way to find my Xanax - only took a half to start this attack from becoming worse. I felt ill and my stomach began to churn so I decided to run a bath, knowing that would calm me down. So here I am at 3am in a NYC hotel shallow bath tub pondering the reasons why my more recent anxiety attack came on: (1) Stressed at work, from being so busy and with all the new and sometimes demanding clients, (2) Recently being sick, and I hate being sick, and (3) Too much caffeine? I realized after soaking and calming down that I believe that my left arm completely fell asleep and when I turned over in my sleep all the blood started to rush back into my arm with painful vengeance. OUCH.. sigh. Of course the running joke when I get flustered or hyper in the salon is, “Shan why don’t you take a bath?”

Deva Day at the Departure Lounge in SoHo. I am super excited to finally be officially trained in the Deva concept of cutting and coloring curly hair. I must say, the staff was very nice and down to earth, much more than I expected from such a reputable salon in New York. Our team from Pure really absorbed the details, and I think added more education through questions to the other 14 or so stylists in attendance from all over the country. Apryl cracked herself up and us with her imagining that she had smeared hair color all over the back of my vintage black jacket between swipes of painting strands of hair since we were in close proximity to each other. I suppose it was more imagining my response and her carelessness that defined the whole pretend scenario. At the end of the day and after seeing my techniques, one of the instructors/stylist said I should come work there. I want to work there, what if I did a few days a month in NYC?

Over all we had a super time in NYC and it was always in my thoughts that it would be good for us to bond and chat as a team outside the salon. The Drive back was split up, Maria and I in the lead speed car and Jenny and Apryl following us up the FDR highway to 95. We got caught in Connecticut construction for about 30 minutes and while traveling Apryl would occasionally call Maria, just to chat. At one slow going bumper to bumper traffic Apryl was seen by us and many surrounding drivers crawling back into the of Jenny’s Hybrid. She put down the seats and was pulling her pajamas out of the suit case. The truck driver next to them certainly enjoyed the show. Maria was sad that I had forgotten my binoculars. We were so slap happy that at times I would burst into laughter just thinking of Apryl’s reaction to meaningless random items along the drive that might inspire a thought from her.

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It is always a joy to be back home in Boston with my man Jay. This week has been busy, but I have been much more relaxed. My 1 year anniversary of returning to St. Louis to do hair is upon us and I am excited to share my enthusiasm for good looking hair.

September 11, 2008

Shan on Yelp.


September 1, 2008

Boston Moped Massacre

Ok so here we are on our 1968 Riverside mopeds yesterday at the Boston Moped Massacre '08 rally...about 30 of us on mopeds swarming through the streets of Boston...blocking intersections, blowing through red lights and pedestrian filled crosswalks...for once, as a mass unit, taking over the streets usually very unfriendly to moped riders (although we have every right to be on the street...just as much as cars, trucks, busses and taxicbs)...unfortunately Shan's bike made it for 10 minutes and then died...LOL...

We sat in a black top parking lot for 4 hours waiting for the damn ride to start - but with the moped culture (READ: partiers, drinkers, stoners)... We have learned that schedules are tentative at best...

We think Shan's bike got overheated but who knows...[sigh]...guess we'll have to look at the plug, carb, condenser...(god do I sound BUTCH or what? Who uses words like plug, carb and condenser???)

Anyway, we met some new people, other 'ped heads drooled over our bikes...now we need to get Shan's back up and running...


(This is a copy of an email Jay sent to our friends, I thought I would share with everyone on my blog, enjoy.)

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August 29, 2008

Barack Obama on GLBT equality

August 19, 2008

Car on Google

Don't forget Big Brother is watching (hee hee) Look below, my car in front of my building.

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August 18, 2008

"Show me crazy"

What do you get when you put Winnie the Pooh, a picture of Jesus, another picture of a puppy and Donna Summers “Last Dance” on cassette tape? You get our cab driver from last night and we had a hard time keeping our composure during our 10 minute ride from the South End back home to Fenway. Oh, he also had cut some white tube socks and had them on both his hands, I suppose for some sort of protection or padding from the steering wheel. I couldn’t ask him why because Pooh was staring at me along with the photo of Jesus and the lonely looking puppy. I did ask if it was a radio station playing and he said “No it’s a tape.” The funniest thing about him was that he would bob up and down, dancing to the music and at every stop light he would pick up what looked like an inflatable or water filled dumbbell with his right hand and do a few arm curls; quite funny indeed. He thanked us repeatedly in a high pitched tourette’s sort of way as we exited the cab.

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August 11, 2008

Boston Rain

Rain, rain, rain and more rain in Boston, SIGH.... But the two 1968 Benelli mopeds are up and running; Woo-hoo. They are so much fun to ride and they get tons of attention. We picked up the second one yesterday after a very nice guy in Woburn has been working on them out of his workshop behind his house for a week. So we took the back roads home with the moped in the hatch of the car and we got stuck in a tunnel that was flooded from a flash flood (see photo below). Several cars attempted to go through and a small handful didn’t make it. We waited (30 mins) till they closed the road behind us and we back tracked.
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Work is going strong and I have been really picking up more and more clients. I do get a bit more exhausted lately and I need to start pacing myself and remember to start snacking in between to keep nourished. I have been watching more of the Olympic Games and especially like the Diving events. OK Back to the Olympics..

July 23, 2008

Summer in the comment section

Whew, Pride is over and the Block Party in R.I. was a drag, so we ended up walking to most of the local gay bars in downtown instead. Overall I think Providence is a cute little town.

The evening of the 4th was spent watching (for our first time) the Boston Fireworks; we even took Pru (Great Dane) with us, but she certainly didn’t care for the finale. We had attended two small BBQ’s that day, one by Jenny and Rich and the others’ Matt and Scott. My father has come and gone from his very first trip to Boston, that same weekend. He drove (the long way) all the way from St. Louis to bring Jay and I two identical 1968 Italian mopeds. I am still trying to find someone to work on them and get them up a running. Although it was a short trip as he had to get back to North Carolina to pick up a good friend from her Tai-chi weekend. We rode the high speed 30 passenger boat out in the harbor called Codzilla. (see my review on yelp: CLICK HERE. ) I actually really enjoyed the tour of Fenway Park, and made me yearn to attend and see a game. I think the highlight of his trip was his 30 mile hike out in the ocean to see the Whales. It was nice just to show him around the town and for him to see how and where we lived and worked.

There has been some drama on my client testimonial section of my website in the past week or more. You have to scroll down several rebuttals to get the original message everyone is referring to, quite funny and frankly, simply ridiculous. (Quick Link)

Well back to work…